Since I have refused to potty train Chilly, thanks to the advice given here, and the fact that I AM lazy, tired, and sick of cleaning poo; Chilly has thus decided to train himself. My only demand is that he not wear pants if he pees in his underwear.
See that is how kids work. When I was all hot on getting him to, he had no desire, when I decided it was better off to not do it at all, he starts.
But I am happy, because he is starting to get it. Not just the potty training stuff, but the fact that he is growing up.
Maybe I should start demanding that they not pick up the toys, not eat their dinner, or take a bath.