"oh i know, she is a perfect baby"(clueless person)
"that is nice" (me again, nodding my head absently, knowing full well that babies are soul suckers)
"yeah, you really should have a girl"
"yeah, you really should lose 10 pounds"
i mean, really, how do you know what has happened in my life? do you know how long it takes me to get pregnant, how do you know i haven't had my own share of loss, how do you know it has been a long road to get the kids that i actually have here?
and what is the big deal? is there something that says girl babies are better than boys? what if i really like having boys. am i really missing out? and what does that mean, i "need" to have one. am i not complete without a daughter? and do you know if i haven't tried?
i know it isn't said with malicious intent, but i am so done with people assuming my fertility or my reproductive organs are their business.